This man is a player and you are being played big time. The other women is smart enough to say that she is not leaving her husband for him, yet you are waiting for him to leave her for you. I am sure the sex is "excellent" for you as well as for the other women too. If you just want a “cut buddy,” he is the perfect guy.But if you want more, he is definitely not the one.When a married man courts a woman, he takes a huge risk—a risk that reveals he wants her very much.His time with her, whether texting, secret coffee dates, or time spent in her bed, reveals a commitment much deeper than the single men she has been with. They didn’t have to engage in clandestine plans and think of elaborate excuses.Thank you, animators, for perfectly illustrating that little flare of excitement that lights up when someone likes you back. “You’re not even reading their intros.” “You’re not supposed to,” he said, with all the conviction of a man who also left the dating pool before apps took over. (And yes, I know it was Lisa they liked, but that flare belonged to me.) Sitting on the couch studying Tinder profiles that night, my husband took the phone saying, “You’re doing this wrong,” and began swiping left and right like a windshield wiper. Anyway, Lisa, the love of your life was almost certainly among those half-dozen guys he passed over before I could grab the phone back.
If he doesn’t show her how he feels with his eyes, his voice, the brush of his hand against her back, her shoulder, how will she know he wants her?
And why would she stay with him if he doesn’t continue to work that magic that won her?
The intimacy they share, the illusion he creates, is tremendously mesmerizing.
No matter how sticky the situation, some men find themselves not only attracted to but in a relationship with a married woman.
The reasons for this range from exciting ones such as lust and/or love to the downright unfortunate one - ignorance about her marital status.